Yes. North Carolina’s custody statute does not presume that one parent will better promote a child’s interest and welfare. That does not guarantee either parent a particular schedule; the facts and the child’s needs matter.
G.S. 50-13.2 directs the court to consider relevant factors, including domestic violence and safety, and the child’s best interest.
What should a father prepare?
Keep a clear record of your role in daily care: parenting time, school involvement, medical appointments and activities. Explain your work schedule, living arrangements and the practical needs of the child.
Bring existing orders and relevant communication to your attorney. Discuss specific safety concerns rather than relying on broad accusations or assumptions about the other parent.
Does preparation mean attacking the other parent?
The focus should be an arrangement that supports the child. Relevant concerns need to be addressed, but unnecessary confrontation, angry messages or social media disputes can make an already difficult situation harder to manage.
Can parents reach an agreement?
Some disputes can be addressed through negotiation or mediation. Others require a hearing. An attorney can help assess the issues and prepare the information needed for the appropriate process.
Where can you learn about representation?
See our separate Wake County custody service page, read about child custody services or contact the Fuquay-Varina office.
This article provides general information, not advice for an individual case.